Last Sunday I was able to understand what was being taught at Tuol Tom Pong Branch. I purchased the current Relief Society manual at the Service Center. Now I can follow along in my manual what the teacher is presenting. Between key words I recognize in Khmer and what I am reading I can get the gist of what the gospel discussion is. It has taken me almost a year to figure out the lessons schedule.
Monday the air conditioner repairmen finally came. They were suppose to come last week. We scheduled twice for them to come and they were a no show. We had given up on them coming. Lo and behold they showed up. We were both in the middle of some important work but hey it is Cambodia. So we dropped everything and sat back and relaxed. We are at the mercy of people with sloth blood. The positive outcome of this is that the air conditioner is no longer making puddles on Dale's desk.
Since PEF was made available to older people we have had a wave of new loan applications. It will be interesting to see how this evolves. Many of the trade schools these older people will be attending have no business cards, letter heads or anything to verify their authenticity. All rules in regard to how schools are paid has gone out the window. Pandora's box has a crack in it. We will be long gone before any of our older PEF participants complete their studies. We will never know "the rest of the story".
I do hope that another Senior Couple will be called to take our place. Monday morning on our PEF Facebook site there was a request to encourage Senior couples to consider serving with PEF. Sometimes couples are asked to extend their missions. I believe if there was a need for us to extend our mission we would have already been asked. If we are asked to extend you all know what we will say. If you need a hint consider this, we are looking forward to clean air, clean water, safe food, family and friends.
Monday was self evaluation day. Dale and I took a survey that helped us see how we are progressing as individuals and as a couple. We set individual goals and goals to do for each other and with each other. The time we spent answering this survey and reviewing our answers together has already strengthened our relationship. As we follow through with our goals we will have increased happiness in the days, weeks, months and years yet to come. We will followup on our progress weekly. Cheers to a happier life!
Tuesday Elder Tuck came to our office. I think he wanted to discuss his dilemma concerning getting support from the priesthood in implementing a solid Family History effort in each branch. He and his wife are overseeing the Family History department while Elder and Sister Rhyne attempt to put order to the membership records. Records have apparently gone as far as a box at the Service Center. It is near impossible to do Family History without correct records. Much of the work the Rhyne's have assisted the members with this past year needs to be redone. Not good.
Tuesday evening we enjoyed a tuk tuk ride to the Titanic restaurant with the Rhynes. Elder and Sister Blinn who have been serving as the only Senior Couple in Ho Chi Minh, Vietnam were flying home. It was their final meal in Asia. They served by themselves in Vietnam with a few younger missionaries. That would have been a real challenge for me. Sister Blinn assured me that I could have done it. I know that whatever we are called to do we have the Lord's help. Recognizing that we are His tools and are not relying on ourselves to accomplish His work Sister Blinn is right. We would have done OK. The Lord knows each of us individually. We are called by Him to go where we can best serve Him and His children. Our assignments from Him offer us experiences that help refine us. Dale and I are learning much about the gospel as we teach Institute and witness the Church grow in Cambodia. A mission not only helps us grow spiritually but we are finding that our marriage is being strengthened. We are learning who we are and what is most important to us. At age 60 we are still working out our salvation and path to happiness. We continue to learn, make changes, set goals and discover more concerning our talents, strengths and weaknesses.
Our dinner at the Titanic was just the opposite of our last experience there. We chose pineapple chicken. The meat was very tender with a mild sweet sauce. The dish also had fresh pineapple chunks, bell peppers and onions. Little flying critters made from cucumbers garnished our plates. They were bugs I could sink my teeth into. This will no doubt be the standard dish we order at the Titanic from now on.
I know cucumber bugs do not count as eating bugs in Cambodia. Elder Kohl and Sister Kohl recently visited the Provinces to survey the latrine projects. Elder Kohl took the opportunity to sink his teeth into a spicy cricket. He reported that it tasted sort of like a worm. Yes, apparently he has tasted worms. He led me to believe he would like to try a Tarantula. Our grandchildren would like us to try bugs. They are going to be disappointed because we will leave the bugs to the birds, frogs, snakes, fish and other creatures lower on the food chain to consume. We prefer eating our bugs via fish and chips.
Us at the Titanic restaurant. How romantic.
Wednesday and Thursday there was lots of sawing noises outside our office door. The Church wants all paid employee office doors to have windows. Window holes have been placed in Touch Sophornn and Pen Vibol's doors. Their doors are solid wood. The work crew left before they had added the glass windows. We were joking with Sophornn about which one of us would spend the night sleeping at the base of the doors to prevent burglaries. Fortunately the crew did return to complete their job before closing time. The craftsmanship is Cub Scout day camp quality. Because we are PEF volunteers our door did not need a window. Two noisy days meant only a few phone contacts with students.
Drilling, sawing, hammering and dust has also been life at our apartment complex. We now have a plastic surgery clinic in our building. There is lots of clean up to do but for the most part it is ready for business.
From past blogs you are aware that the road to our work has been under construction for quite some time. It just keeps getting bigger and bigger. As we walked home Saturday we caught a worker taking a break.
Notice the hammock hanging from this rig.
This guy was pleased to pose for us.
This is what the route to work looks like these days.
We share the sidewalk with motos and bicyclists and other pedestrians. This is me walking ahead of Dale on the way home from church.
Rush hour traffic is really interesting. I love it when motos honk their horns at us. I wish I had a horn to honk back.
This picture was taken about 6:15 AM. We were walking to our building to teach early morning Institute class. When we are walking the streets at this hour people are just getting up. It is no big deal to see rubbish fires like this along the streets.
Living in Cambodia is like camping at a really ugly campsite with few amenities. We see lots of outdoor cooking over fire.
Our air compressor friend was still asleep when we passed by him at 6:15 Saturday morning.
The people have nothing to steal so they are perfectly safe sleeping out in the open. This is life in Cambodia. The people work to earn enough money to eat. There are no government handouts in Cambodia. Any relief such as free rice or medicine comes from outside of Cambodia.
Wednesday and Thursday the air waves were filled with hammering and sawing. Friday we heard loud chanting and Khmer music. We looked out our office window. In the alley below we witnessed a wedding in progress. Everyone was dressed in fancy sparkly clothing. The Cambodia experience.
We were not the only neighbors watching the wedding. Notice the lady looking out her doorway at the left of this photo. The wedding is taking place beyond the two tarps.
In regards to our PEF calling. Loan disbursements have tapered off now that the school year has begun. There will be a surge of loan distributions just before we leave the country. Most schools run from September through June. Keeping people focused on their promises to attend Institute and make regular payments on their loans is an ongoing frustration. When we interview our students we ask them how they are doing with their promises. They say fine. We check with the Institute secretary and things are not fine. If there is one thing we want to teach our students before we leave is that they will not receive renewal loans unless they keep their promises. We have denied several student loans recently because of this. They need to do what they have contracted to do. We are not going to let things slide.
Our Institute class attendance was low this Saturday. Monday is a holiday( Meak Bochea Day) so possibly several students went to their home provinces. Saturday there was also a teachers training meeting. We were told we did not need to attend. We worked in our office instead. When the training meeting adjourned Sophornn brought us boxed lunches of chicken wings and drumsticks, rice, cucumbers and some kind of a spicy vegetable. I had not made peanut butter sandwiches so it saved me making lunches. We left work about 1:00. We walked home, dropped off our scriptures and then walked to Lucky Groceries to stock up on cereal and other goods we were running low on. There were several items on my list that I am no longer able to find in the stores. We arrived here last March. I am hoping in March the products I bought then will resurface. If they do I am definitely stocking up. When I first began shopping in Cambodia I would see something I wanted but there would only be three cans or three boxes on the shelf. I would only buy one so somebody else could also buy some. I have discovered other people are not that considerate. I now buy what I know we will use. If there are only three boxes or cans and I know I will use them then I'm going to buy them.
Sunday we attended the International Branch. It is always good to go to church there. Everyone speaks a certain degree of English. It is nice to be able to worship God and understand the messages being taught. Tonight we attended a Young Single Adult Church Education fireside. It was weird to hear President Uchtdorf speak Khmer. He spoke on What is Truth? We copied his talk from lds.org so we could read along in English. Many of our PEF students were in attendance so we were able to make voice contacts with them. A few less phone calls for this week.
Elder Capener was at the fireside tonight without his wife. We asked why she was not with him. He said that she was washing their car. The two steps that lead to their apartment were wet and she slipped and injured her shoulder. This happened about five days ago. She has not gone to a doctor. Sister James found a chiropractor. Sister Capener wants to go that route. What a bum deal. Serving a mission does not prevent us from having ill health or prevent accidents from happening. Casualties of life happen even to missionaries.
We had a milestone this week. February 22, 2012 we entered the MTC. We have been serving our mission a year now. In a couple of weeks we will have been in the country one year. We are glad that we chose this time in our lives to serve a mission. These last few months will pass quickly. I'm glad we have this blog for proof that this whole experience actually happened.
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