IT'S A BOY
Our next grand child will arrive either in May or June of this year. We are so happy for Jenni, Stuart, Rylie and Owen as they prepare for the arrival of their new baby. We are happy for ourselves also. Thank you to all who have remembered our family in your prayers. The Anderson's have been faithfully anticipating adopting another child for quite some time. Our grandson, Owen, is anxious to choose a name for his little brother. Until this very important decision is made we affectionately refer to him as Baby Blue. We are grateful to Heavenly Father and Baby Blues "tummy mama" and biological father for their unselfish gift in allowing Baby Blue to join our family.
Kids seem to be this weeks theme.
Today we attended Tuol Thom Pong Branch. DoVirak,one of our PEF students, requested that Dale stand in the prayer circle as Virak blessed his daughter. It was an honor for Dale to do this. It was great that Virak blessed his baby. Too often in Cambodia the families want the Senior Elders to bestow the blessings on their children. This is a father's honor and responsibility if he is able. We encourage them to use the Priesthood they have been ordained with to bless their families and members they have stewardship over. Virak left church early and so we did not get a photo of their baby.
Saturday we attended Chandy Touch's birthday party. She is six years old. Sophornn, who we work with, is her father. Sophornn is also the Branch President for the International Branch. The branch was invited to Chandy's party. It was like a branch activity.
The guests arrived at 3:00. The guest of honor did not arrive until 4:30. Chandy's mother, Ruddy, was very apologetic that they were late. The food took longer to prepare than she had planned. The cake order was also not ready at the pick up time.While we waited for Chandy's arrival a few of the adults gathered the children to play Hot Potato, Duck Duck Goose and Shark. There was some free play time also. We all know how crazy free play can be when kids are let loose in the church. Keeping the children from dismantling the decorations before Chandy arrived was fun..err not.
The gift table.
Table decorations.
Chandy arrives and runs, and runs and runs.
The cake has arrived.
Chandy loved her princess cake with very scary hair.
A child's delight made from skewered mini dogs with pink and white marshmallow twists displayed in coconuts.
Dale serving the food.
Children of the International Branch...
The party was still going strong when we left at 5:45. We needed to get home before it was dark. I still had ugh...laundry to do. I did not do it on Friday because we got home too late. Now Saturday night would become my agony.
This morning on the way to church we took a detour. We passed a sign that said LOUNDRY. Unfortunately we did not take the same route home. I wanted a blog picture. The sign explains washing clothes in Cambodia. For the past 10 1/2 months I thought I was suppose to do laundry. I have been doing loundry! I have nothing to complain about. This is what loundry looks like.
Now I understand my clothes cleaning option. Some places offer a room to do laundry or provide a machine for each apartment. Apparently Gold 1 apartments offers a place to do loundry. I feel so much better.
Monday when we left the office to go home there were several mothers with their children in the church parking lot. We were told that they were picking up food commodities for their children who were under the age of eight. Most children love to get their pictures taken. Other children are not quite so eager. Kids, kids, kids...
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"Don't leave me mom. I'll protect you. If I look him straight in the eye maybe he will go away."
This week has been a wonderful week for PEF. Four of our PEF participants are debt free. They set a goal to pay off their loans in 2013. They did it. We are so happy for them. When this happens it is such a great feeling for them and for us.
Wednesday two Senior couples boarded a plane together to return to the USA. The Shelley's leaving is like cutting off one of our arms and a
leg. They were Member Leader support in Kampong Cham. Without them we are
not sure how we will be able to serve our 17+ PEF students in that Province. The Church
has no technology in the Provinces. Computer access comes from the equipment
brought from home by our Senior Missionaries. The Shelley's did all the leg work
in Kampong Cham. They found reputable trade schools for our students to attend and assisted them in
filling out their loan applications. They also helped them find ways to pay on their PEF loan. Often there was a need to help students with their banking concerns. The list of things they did for us goes
on and on. They would email us all the necessary loan and school information and we would submit the
loans. Whenever they would come to Phnom Penh for a training meeting, etc. they
would bring with them money students owed in back pay. As far as we know there are no Senior missionaries scheduled to replace them. What we will do now is a big question mark. For the past
few years there has always been Senior Couples to call upon. Not anymore.
Cambodia lacks a reliable mailing system. Dishonesty inside and outside the church is a reality. Sending cash by bus seems to be our only option. It is not a good option. We may out of necessity need to use it in order to allow our students to
continue their education. This is one of those "only time will tell" situations.
The Henderson's were our Humanitarian couple. The Kohls from Colorado have replaced them. The Humanitarian program will move ahead smoothly with the Kohls at its head. Nonetheless we will greatly miss the Henderson's.
They were one of our "sounding blocks". They were funny and also compassionate
about the service they were doing here. I know that they still had concerns as
they passed the baton on. Change is always hard even on a mission.
NEWS ALERT!!! There is a return ticket home once a Senior Couple has served their 18 to 23 month mission. I saw the tickets with my own eyes. We also received an email from Sister Henderson:
Dear Elder and Sister Meier,
Elder Grmines asked me to tell him what it was like clearing customs. I thought you might like this information as well. Here is what to expect on the trip home. I was surprised to see that all the shops in the PP airport were still open for our late departure.We were given customs from on the flight into Seattle that asked us to list the items we had purchased abroad and to put a dollar value on them (excluding anything that was mailed). There were several lines on the form. Each passenger is allowed $800 duty free. We just grouped items together, paintings, baskets, clothes, etc. and put a dollar value on each group. When we arrived in Seattle we collected our bags and went to customs. The agent looked at the form and just waived us through. The Shelley's went through security inspection (for about the 12th time) and on to their connecting flight. We left with our luggage and our son was waiting at the top of the escalator. Upon arrival, the only long line we stood in was immigration and that moved quickly.
We're here with our son Matt in Seattle, it's cold! On to the next chapter of our lives. Be aware that the closer you come to returning home, the faster time flies.
We have enjoyed knowing you and look forward to visiting with you after you return to Vancouver.
Dear Elder and Sister Meier,
Elder Grmines asked me to tell him what it was like clearing customs. I thought you might like this information as well. Here is what to expect on the trip home. I was surprised to see that all the shops in the PP airport were still open for our late departure.We were given customs from on the flight into Seattle that asked us to list the items we had purchased abroad and to put a dollar value on them (excluding anything that was mailed). There were several lines on the form. Each passenger is allowed $800 duty free. We just grouped items together, paintings, baskets, clothes, etc. and put a dollar value on each group. When we arrived in Seattle we collected our bags and went to customs. The agent looked at the form and just waived us through. The Shelley's went through security inspection (for about the 12th time) and on to their connecting flight. We left with our luggage and our son was waiting at the top of the escalator. Upon arrival, the only long line we stood in was immigration and that moved quickly.
We're here with our son Matt in Seattle, it's cold! On to the next chapter of our lives. Be aware that the closer you come to returning home, the faster time flies.
We have enjoyed knowing you and look forward to visiting with you after you return to Vancouver.
Last supper with Elder and Sister Henderson and Elder and Sister Shelley.
Place: Tell Restaurant
All the Senior Couples were here including the couples from Battambang and Kampong Thom. We lose our Kampong Thom couple in April. This will be another sad day for the Provinces and for PEF. The Kampong Thom couple also travel two hours to Siem Reap to check on the saints there. They are Elder and Sister Grimnes. Our only other couple leaves in July. We are praying that there have been couples called that we are unaware of. "Only time will tell".
The Shelley's at the airport. Sister Shelley was also the country nurse. ( I guess if in doubt soak in bleach!")
This was the Henderson's first Church mission but they have taught English in China. A really great couple.They do have family in our area so there is a chance that some day we may meet up again. Their home is in St. George, Utah.
Don't get too weighed down this week.
We love you.