Mom's funeral was this week. It was a hard week for Dale. Closure for him is yet to come. When we return next August, we plan to visit mom and dad's grave site. Words of gratitude and love will be spoken then. We are grateful for family members keeping us informed on what has been happening in our absence. We are grateful for the photos, kind words of concern, love and support that have been extended to us by email. We were told the weather was beautiful on mom's funeral day. Many people came to show their love and respect and support to our family. Stevenson Ward prepared a wonderful lunch for the family. We are grateful for this service.We are so appreciative for the staff and residents at Rock Cove Assisted Living. Mom was well cared for and loved. We are also grateful to Hospice. The people that worked with our family were so helpful. They continue with follow up calls to help the family deal with our loss.The Lord is near each of us. He uses His children to help His children. We are never alone. It is important to allow others to help. The Lord works His miracles through His servants here on earth. Thank you to all that have been the Lord's hands in helping us.
This Gecko was so disoriented. He was about the size of my little finger. I walked by him when I went down the hall to go to the laundry room Friday evening. I passed him three times. He occasionally made one or two steps in a circular path. When I was done with my laundry he was still in the same place. The next day he was gone. I do not know if his fate was from the housekeeper or if he crawled away. He seemed so lost. It made me sad.
This week may not be another week in Paradise, but it is another week...another 7 days closer to fulfilling the mission we planned to serve so many years ago. Some times we wake up and think," wow we are in Cambodia". If I could have known in advance what was going to transpire on this mission I might not have come. It is best not to know. We serve and let the blessings and frustrations happen as they may. This mission is helping us to recognize our strengths and weaknesses. Our mission experience gives me new admiration and respect for our young men and women that serve in the states and throughout the world. Dale and I have each other to lean on when we experience the roller coaster of emotions that come with serving the Lord. We are free to access technology to communicate with home and keep up on current affairs any time we please. Our young missionaries have less freedom in this respect. They are sent to unfamiliar places by themselves. They meet other young people in similar circumstances and hopefully find support in new friendships. They do not have the support that a married couple have. Theirs is truly an act of faith and obedience. When I observe the young missionaries in Cambodia I think of our sons Kyle, Jon, Jay and Stuart who served faithfully. I remember that when Kyle was serving in Thailand there was no Internet communication. Letters were received about every 10 days. Today the Internet affords a weekly contact with loved ones. Dear sons, thank you each for the example you set for daddy and I. I know your service touched many peoples lives in positive ways. We hope that as we serve we will do likewise.
It is amazing how small this world is. In November one of our Institute students, Nong, will travel to Provo to be trained as a missionary. She will report to the Washington Tacoma Mission. She speaks and reads English well. Anywhere she is sent she will do good. The other day she had an activity for the young women in her branch. They baked cookies. The kitchen they used is just down the hall from our office. The building smelled so good. She brought us a plate of warm oatmeal and raisin cookies. As I bit into the first cookie I thought to myself, "hello America!" I didn't even know it was possible to bake a decent cookie in Cambodia. I was impressed and grateful she shared with us.
When we first arrived in Cambodia we met a young woman who had also served in the Washington Tacoma Mission. She told us that she served in Edmonds and Everett. Today I met a young woman who 6 years ago served in Bellevue, Renton, and Issaquah. As Walt Disney would say, "It's a small world after all..." The other areas that I am aware that Cambodian missionaries have served are Temple Square and Las Vegas, and California. Several have been sent to Korea and Australia. Most remain in Cambodia and serve in the areas where they will not meet up with family members.
This week we took very few photos. We spent most of our time in the office. In September school begins for many of our students. We need to be in the office and available to make out payment requisitions so our students can pay for school. Our food supply was getting low last week. Shopping at Lucky is not always convenient. We usually run out of bread before the end of the week and fresh produce goes bad quickly even with refrigeration. It is best to shop for produce and bread throughout the week rather than stocking up. This week we discovered two small shops in our neighborhood where we can purchase good produce and sandwich bread at. This is a huge help to us. Our trips to Lucky take a chunk of time from our evenings. We usually get home between 5-6 in the evening. By the time I get dinner prepared and cleaned up it is often 8:30 at night. If we have to shop it is even later.
We attended the International Branch today for church. The Russ family from New Jersey spoke in Sacrament meeting. They have three children. Each member of the family spoke. They are in Cambodia for a year. Sister Russ works for the American Embassy. She is a scientist working with conservation issues. Brother Russ served a mission in Canada.
He told us about the importance of having a firm testimony of the gospel.
In one of his proselyting areas a he was told of a church branch that had existed. One day Elder Russ questioned an older member of the church about the history behind the lost branch. He learned that at one time the branch had many active members. Something happened and several of the members were arrested. When this happened most of the members stopped attending church.The low attendance resulted in the shutting down of the branch. The faithful few were instructed to attend the next nearest branch several miles away. The man telling this story said that he had been baptized two weeks before the arrests were made. He was confused and angry. He had just had a wonderful conversion experience and then all this awful stuff happened. In his anger he decided that he would not go to church. In the days that followed he thought about his experience in finding the church. He pondered on what he knew was true. He said that he had read the Book of Mormon and had a witness that its words were true, He knew that if it were not for Joseph Smith the Book of Mormon would not be available to him. He had prayed and gained a testimony of the truthfulness of the church. Because he remembered the good experiences he had received through the spirit he decided he would not let the errors of others deny him the blessings of the gospel. He chose to travel to the branch available to him. His testimony was not based on the testimony of others. He had gained his testimony through personal study and prayer. He allowed the Holy Ghost to testify to him of truth.
This week we experienced a Khmer hospital. Sister Tuck and Elder Tuck have been in Cambodia since January. Sister Tuck has been in and out of hospitals ever since she arrived here. She has had a difficult time with her asthma. She has had to have eye surgery. And her most recent stay was this past week due to an infection that was resistant to the antibiotics she had been prescribed. Saturday we visited with her and were told she was going to have to remain in the hospital for fourteen more days. She was a bit discouraged. I just got word that she was released this afternoon. They reevaluated her situation and decided she could go home. We took a few pictures of her hospital room. I do not want to be a patient in a Khmer hospital. This was a fairly nice facility. This hospital specializes in surgeries. Sister Tuck was admitted for special circumstances. I don't want to bore you with the details. Anyway her hospital actually provides meals. Many hospitals require the family to bring meals in. That is the case for our missionaries that have been admitted to the hospital for such things as Dengue Fever and bicycle accidents.
Here is a tour of Sister Tucks room.
Her room is on the second floor. Outside the window is a busy, noisy road.
Guests can relax on the couch made of bricks or the lovely recliner Dale is demonstrating. This puts "Easy Boy" to shame.
Not a bad set up for showering . I guess they don't worry about their surgery patients slipping. Or perhaps they have guests shower, slip and then become patients.
I usually don't like to speak about my birthday but I just had one. Dale decided to take a before and after picture. So here I am....
Age 59
Age 60
What will this next year bring....only time will tell.
Have a great week and we will too.