Hello family and friends,
This has been a very busy week. We phone called several of our PEF students to check on how they were doing and to schedule graduation and transition interviews for some. We were in training meetings a couple of days this week with Elder and Sister Kelly who are the Area PEF Coordinators. They visited us from Hong Kong. Their home is in Provo, Utah. We also traveled to one of the Provinces, Kampong Cham. You might recall that we visited there about a month ago to meet with our PEF students. This week's trip was primarily for a PEF fireside to educate prospective PEF students and their families about the PEF program. The fireside was Thursday evening. A fair amount of people were in attendance. They had a much better turn out of people than the fireside in Phnom Penh the week before. The reason for this was that the publicity for the fireside in Kampong Cham was better. The firesides are set up by the priesthood in the various areas. We do not have much say in the when and where that they happen. We may be given greater responsibility over the firesides in the future. We shall see. That old cliche "it is hard to teach an old dog new tricks" fits here.I wanted to share some of this weeks "khmae" discoveries that made me smile.
Caution: Candy is slippery and can cause choking.
Dale got a little goody package from President Smedley and Sister Smedley for his birthday and these little morsels were among the wonderful treats that can be purchased here. They come in chocolate, melon, vanilla and a number of other flavors. They are a cross between a hard candy and a chewy candy. Not quite tootsie roll soft.
Soft Soap Safedoctor: Green and non-phosphor
Healthy Care
Healthy hand wash-lotion
Refreshing and clean type
We stayed at Elder and Sister Shelley's house in Kampong Cham. They live in a large home. They have an extra bedroom and bathroom. Last time we were in Kampong Cham we stayed at our "Viva LasVegas" suite. The bathroom was my first experience with a shower that was not semi contained.We removed the toilet paper to be safe that it would not end up a ball of mush.
As you can see the shower is in the center of the room between the toilet and the sink. The drain is in a corner of the room next to the bathroom entrance. It was pretty well soaked after each of my showers. I was amazed how quickly it would dry. We did squeegee the floor after we used it. I can see why return missionaries to the states would like this set up. When it is time to clean the bathroom you simply blast it with water and walk away.
This is Elder and Sister Shelley. They have been serving in Kampong Cham for about 9 months. They are the only missionary couple in this area and have many responsibilities. Their calling is member leader support. This means they do counseling with our PEF students, work with members on genealogy, train the leadership on how to conduct meetings, how to teach, how to hold interviews,etc. They also teach English classes for the church members as well as in some of the schools in their area.They have worked side by side with members in the rice paddies, also planting bean gardens, helped construct some basic buildings and have other projects in the works. Sister Shelley has been compiling music for the primary children because at the present time the children here do not have too many of the primary songs to sing. Sister Shelley is also the church nurse for the members in Cambodia. This means she checks situations when missionaries get sick and attends to members that may need to go to the hospital, etc.) They have been very kind to us and helpful and we truly appreciate their goodness.
This cow was grazing on the neighbor's property next to the home of one of our PEF Students. I was really happy to get this picture. Most of my cow pictures have been taken as the car has rapidly passed them by. Most of those pictures were of cow rears or cows with no heads.
These boys live near the river. We stopped the car and asked if we could take their picture from our car window. They are carrying rice. This day was very hot. Remember last week I said the hot season has arrived. It has with a vengeance. Evenings and mornings are still pleasant, but as the day progresses it gets quite draining. I have never sweated like this in my entire life. I think about the many people that do not have the luxury of air condition and showers. The homes we visited in Kampong Cham were very primitive to our standards. They have collection barrels to gather water and they cook outside. My legs were exposed to some sort of insect that left purple blotches all over me. I counted 19 spots. These people are exposed to this day in and day out. Many do not have bathrooms but use the bushes for privacy.
This house is a very nice house for this area. Homes are grouped together similar to our subdivisions. You will pass several homes that are built pretty much the same as each other. There are many homes that are very small and have minimal protection from the elements. Often the front of the home will also serve as a place of business.
This is the side yard to the neighbor of one of our PEF Students. We were waiting for her to come home from work. The picture of my cow shows it grazing on a patch of grass. Most of the land that the people live on is pretty barren. The church is starting a garden program in Cambodia. The trick is to get water to the gardens in the dry season and to prevent the gardens from being washed away in the wet season. I do know that some planting is done in containers. We drove by the young missionaries and they were working on one of those projects. They were using hand shovels to fill shallow baskets with dirt to carry and dump into another area. Farming is still primitive in this country.
Before we headed back to Phnom Penh we had lunch with some of the Seminary teachers serving in Kampong Cham. This is a "real" khmae restaurant. I prayed for my well being and still am on pins and needles whether I will get sick this week. They boiled the water and served it in little coffee pots. I did not drink the water, but did let the ice melt in my glass and drank that. I read if the ice has a hole down the center it is probably safe. The ice was that type. As I was waiting for the food the sisters at the table started wiping their dishes off with napkins. That sent a red flag up for me. I decided I would do as the natives did so I wiped down Dale's and my plates, silverware, etc. I figured if they were doing it I would not offend them if I copied. So far so good with a stable digestive track.
This was dinner with Elder and Sister Kelley, Kim Sang who is a Branch President and also the Service Center Manager and Bernard who also serves in Hong Kong. We are at a Vietnamese Restaurant. It was very nice and the atmosphere was fun. I bet you think all we do is eat. Not true. It is just that I always take pictures of us eating.
This is what we really do. As the men were working to learn the PEF software Sister Kelly and I got a chuckle out of these guys all grouped around the computer. I actually took a series of photos that Sister Kelly wants to use for a report about what was accomplished during their visit to Cambodia. Everyone is learning together to make this program succeed .
I have to add the cuteness of our mission to this blog. We had just left the church building. This is a family in one of the branches in our area. We were riding in our tuk tuk and I noticed them behind us so snapped the photo. Their little girl is so sweet. Some day she will be all grown up and driving her own motorcycle. It is so interesting to see girls and women driving around in evening attire, heels,suits, etc.on their motorcycles. If a woman is a passenger on a motorcycle she usually sits side saddle instead of straddling the bike. They usually just sit holding on to absolutely nothing.
Motorcycles need gasoline and this is usually the fill up station for them. The tuk tuks use this method quite frequently. In Phnom Penh gas costs $6 dollars a gallon at gas stations similar to stations in the United States. If you value your vehicle you go to them. Gas from a Pepsi bottle I have been told often is watered down. But it is the gas of choice for many. There are these fill up stops all over.
American Idol International School
Need I say more?
Today was South District Conference. We went to a building we had never been to before. It is about 3 miles away. By tuk tuk it took about 30 minutes travel time. Had we not gone we would've never discovered the American Idol International School. What a blessing!! To walk that far in the busy traffic, heat, and terrible sidewalks, and streets it would've taken an hour or more. No one would have wanted to sit by us either, "WHEW". This picture is outside the building. The building was constructed by the church and is very beautiful. The tuk tuk in the photo is waiting for us. It cost us $9 round trip. President and Sister Smedley leave June 28th and the new mission president takes over. The District Conferences scheduled now are the Smedley's final ones with the Saints in Cambodia. Sister Smedley gave a very sweet talk today and spoke of her love for the people in Cambodia. She is a very good person. President Smedley gave a great talk on repentance. I know they worry for those they have worked so hard to help. They want them to stay firm in the faith they have embraced. Lives have been changed and improved. Families have been strengthened. I know they have hope that those they leave will continue to be blessed and happy. The church is in its infancy here. The goal is to have a temple in Cambodia. Elder and Sister Rhyne were in the MTC with us. There focus is genealogy. In the short time they have been here they have broken records on the number of people using the genealogy libraries in Phnom Penh. The work is moving forward. The church is here to stay and it will grow and lives will continue to improve. Dale and I are grateful to be a part of this great work.
This is in the Service Center of our Church
( a touch of khmae)
King James Version is:
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you:
not as the world giveth, give I unto you.
Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.
Have a great week.